Many of you may have already discovered the adorable blog, Today's Letters. If you've never been there before, make sure you have several hours to read through all the archives; seriously, the site is addicting!! One of the things that Emily and Tim (authors of the blog) do is to ask each other 4 questions once a week. Bennett and I have done this 3 or 4 times now, and I love it! If you're married, perhaps this would be a good way to intentionally connect with your spouse each week, and if you're not married, store it away for the future :)
1. How did you feel loved this past week?
2. What does your upcoming week look like?
3. How would you feel most loved and encouraged in the coming week?
4. How would you best feel pursued in sex/intimacy this week?
Bennett and I LOVED our pre-marital counseling and have enjoyed a couple of sessions over the last 11 months with our counselor. Asking these questions each week and really thinking about the honest answers kind of feels like a little mini counseling session (in a really good way!) between the two of us.
I love getting to know the heart of my husband, and it's a joy to know how I can serve and love him best.
Let me know if you give them a try and how it goes!
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